Vaginoplasty, but still male besides
I recently told my husband about my desire for nullification and he was initially really concerned. He was afraid I’d be removing something important and it hurt a bit to hear that. We were quiet for a while and then he asked if I’d consider going with a vagina. I said, yeah actually. I’m still a guy, but I think it would increase intimacy.
I guess I learned that if you don’t ask, you don’t know. Now I’m conflicted in a good way. I think I’d be happy being smooth, but I also think I could enjoy having a receptive front which mirrors my partner’s preferences.
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Very cool you had the conversation and they he was willing to provide ba suggestion what might be good for the both of you!
I need to find a way to pitch statements like this to my female spouse.
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Ooh, yeah, that’s tricky. I think my spouse appreciated my honesty. It wasn’t easy telling him, but he said he saw signs before. Maybe your spouse has seen signs too? I found conversing with AI really helped with framing so he wouldn’t panic. I see it maybe more difficult in your situation, so I feel for you and hope for the best.
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I realize you haven't specifically asked for advice here so pardon me but I must say my first reaction to this is concern that you may be diverting from your true desire, which is for nullification, because of the sense that vaginoplasty is similar or equivalent to nullification. This might be a mistake in several ways.
Number one is of course the question of complexity and complications. Nullification is probably the simplest form of full bottom surgery with the least complications, vaginoplasty the highest. Google Ai says the following. "Maintaining a neovagina is a lifelong process primarily involving consistent dilation, meticulous hygiene, and regular medical follow-ups." Nullification, on the other hand, simply requires that you sit to pee afterwards. We're talking two extremes here and it kinda pisses me off that we're not generally free to talk about it.
Number two is equally important. I presume you are a bottom and already receive sexual penetration in the "normal" way (lol) and, if my own experience taught me anything it's that being "cunted" in that way is both transformative and euphoric. We all respond to anal penetration in our own way of course but I think it's a mistake to presume that "front hole" penetration would be as good or even better. Sorry, but that's just not realistic and for a guy who embraces nullification to devert from that sublime course because......well, conventional prospects?
I apologize if I'm coming off as an arrogant dick(less) here but this is all meant with the best of intentions and even love. You decided you want your external genitals deleted......amazing! But why allow yourself to go down a whole other rabbit hole? Just my two cents. Nullification is legit! S'all I'm sayin!
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Just remember... It might look good, but vaginoplasty is really just an open wound, and it supposedly creates a constant disgusting smell
